Had a discussion with Sandra Snan recently. Here's what she recommended me to do:

1. make it so that wget -qO- --header 'Accept: application/json, application/ld+json; profile="https://www.w3.org/ns/activitystreams"' https://links.bouncepaw.com/ shows some JSON stuff and makes it so that people can find the @bouncepaw@links.bouncepaw.com username there

2. Put that as links rel alternare in the HTML because I was grepping that trying to get clues